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She also volunteers as a patient experience advisor at Kingston General Hospital, bringing her own perspective as a recipient of health-care services to ameliorate hospital services for others.

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Five ways you can be your own best advocate as a person living with a serious illness:

Ask for what you need from your friends, family and your health-care team. Communicate with them as honestly as you are comfortable to.

Treat yourself. I make sure there are things in life to look forward to. It can be as simple as listening to your favourite music, eating a meal you love, wearing something fabulous 카지노 게임 컬렉션� whatever gives you a positive boost.

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Understand your role in health care 카지노 게임 컬렉션� and that you can have a role. This can take the form of sharing your perspective with health-care professionals. It can be reaching out to the persobeside you in the waiting room who looks terrified. We can all contribute to making things better for others who are going through what we카지노 게임 컬렉션�re dealing with. I can make even the most disruptive health challenge positive.

- Karen Nicole Smith

Editor's note:  Karen Nicole Smith died at home on Oct. 16, 2016.  A tribute to her has been posted on the Undergraduate School of Medicine blog.